A week after thanksgiving, we had a group discussion about Islam. To make it short, suddenly it become a debate of my commitments toward someone. Yes, it is about love. These are the questions, and my answer: If you guys love each other, why don't you just be in relationship? If we are in love, doesn't mean we MUST be in love. Being in relationship doesn't give any assurance that you are going to get married to each other. Most of my friends that are in relationship often ended up in failure, though a few (like one out of 50) still manage to maintain for 3-4 years. If you are ready to be in relationship, then you must be ready to get married. You give your commitment, attention and time for your partner, isn't it the same as married couple?* I never say being is relationship is wrong, but people who in relationship is the trouble. We always want the good thing (getting attention, sharing our love, etc) but always avoid the hard part (our responsibilities, commitment, et
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aku paham...
ReplyDeleteselagi ada kemahuan, di situ ada highway...
selagi takde kemahuan, di situ ada jalan KL...selalu traffic jam...
naqib - adala~~
ReplyDeleteadam - tapi kat higway kalau ter-over speeding senang jer nak accident.
biarlah jam asal selamat sampai destinasi
haha..yup, people cn chnge wehh..we cn choose our path..to b wat we wanna b..kte ade kebebasan utk berubah..utk wt yg terbaik 4our life..so choose the right path ye kwn ;)
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