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Of Men and Women : Prologue

Men and women are two different species, yet, they are treated as the same. Men expect women to be and think like them, and also the other way around. This is kind of thinking is WRONG.

We shouldn't treat the other gender the same as we would treat our own kind. We should never expect them to act like us. Women are always women, and men are always men.

But of course, women can still do what men do, like playing sports, studying, achieve successes in life etc, and men also can do what women do like sewing, cooking, etc. We need to distinguish between equalities and similarities.

What we do, they can do. That's equality. Everyone has the rights to do what they want.

But men and women are not similar. Both gender has its own special trait.

We often got into conflicts because we thought that the opposite gender should react how we did. By first understanding our differences, we can avoid conflicts and live in a more harmony way.

More to be coming in the future.


  1. dari bahan bacaan...huhu nanti aku credit buku tuh dalam next post

  2. this reminds me of a book by the name of "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus"

    the author clearly clarify the differences between these two genders...

    books for thought

  3. yup, actually it is from that book!


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