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We Don't Have To Hate Each Other

We don't have to hate a person just because a wrong thing that he/she did
We don't have to hate a person just because others tell us to
We don't have to hate a person just because what he heard from others

"Believers, let not a group of you mock another. Perhaps they are better than you. Let not women mock each other; perhaps one is better than the other. Let not one of you find faults in another nor let anyone of you defame another. How terrible is the defamation after having true faith. Those who do not repent are certainly unjust" (Al-Hujaraat, 49:11)

Don't think that others hate you, it not your fault to begin with
It might be some misunderstanding, so don't hate them
Stay away from conjecture that is based from your emotion only
Always think on the positive side first
Don't be prejudice

"Believers, stay away from conjecture; acting upon some conjecture may lead to sin. Do not spy on one another or back-bite. Would any of you like to eat the disgusting dead flesh of your brother? Have fear of God; God accepts repentance and is All-merciful (Al-Hujaraat, 49:12)

I'm sorry for the bad things I said about you at the back

"She said the heart of a Muslim filled with love" (Heart of a Muslim by Zain Bhikha)

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