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Change

You can't change someone who has already closed his/her heart, no matter how much you tried. It's not easy either for someone to change, unless there are certain event that has very deep impact and consequences befall that person.

You know, you can't just be who you are, when you can still be better. Whenever we think that we are always right, then that is the moment when we are wrong. Why stay the same when the "who we are" are terrible?

I, too, still have much to improve and change, especially about what should I do on the next semester. This may be a naive child's dream, but when I become an adult, I don't want to be a stubborn adult who can't listen to other's opinion and I don't want to always be stuck in my own principle.

You said it better: there are no one principle that can b applied to every single thing.

Everyone makes mistake, and there is always a room for improvement.

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