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When Your Friend Has Problem

What are our choice?

-Ask him/her what is the problem
-Wait until he/she is not in bad mood, then ask
-Wait for him/her to tell us first
-Ask other people to ask him/her
-(Will be added)

Anything else?


  1. observe to see if the friend is able to open up to other people or if they tend to go into destructive pattern when they go into sorrow mode.

  2. tggu until org tu open up dlu.
    sbb x smestinya if org tu ade problem die nk share dgn kte..
    ade certain bnde yg org tu rase kte x patut taw. so....
    tggu die bgtaw kot.

  3. erm. wait 4 him/her to tell us frst.

    if dat prson still doesn't after a long time. n she/he looks worse lpas tu. try to ask. tpi klau die xnk gtwu. then, its up to dat crtain prson la kot?

  4. mashi - x semestinya problems kena di-share ngan sumer org kan?hehe

    aisya - concern n give space at the same time right?;)


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