What are our choice?
-Ask him/her what is the problem
-Wait until he/she is not in bad mood, then ask
-Wait for him/her to tell us first
-Ask other people to ask him/her
-(Will be added)
Anything else?
A week after thanksgiving, we had a group discussion about Islam. To make it short, suddenly it become a debate of my commitments toward someone. Yes, it is about love. These are the questions, and my answer: If you guys love each other, why don't you just be in relationship? If we are in love, doesn't mean we MUST be in love. Being in relationship doesn't give any assurance that you are going to get married to each other. Most of my friends that are in relationship often ended up in failure, though a few (like one out of 50) still manage to maintain for 3-4 years. If you are ready to be in relationship, then you must be ready to get married. You give your commitment, attention and time for your partner, isn't it the same as married couple?* I never say being is relationship is wrong, but people who in relationship is the trouble. We always want the good thing (getting attention, sharing our love, etc) but always avoid the hard part (our responsibilities, commitment, et
observe to see if the friend is able to open up to other people or if they tend to go into destructive pattern when they go into sorrow mode.
ReplyDeletenie macam sarcasm jer?
ReplyDeletehaha
tggu until org tu open up dlu.
ReplyDeletesbb x smestinya if org tu ade problem die nk share dgn kte..
ade certain bnde yg org tu rase kte x patut taw. so....
tggu die bgtaw kot.
erm. wait 4 him/her to tell us frst.
ReplyDeleteif dat prson still doesn't after a long time. n she/he looks worse lpas tu. try to ask. tpi klau die xnk gtwu. then, its up to dat crtain prson la kot?
mashi - x semestinya problems kena di-share ngan sumer org kan?hehe
ReplyDeleteaisya - concern n give space at the same time right?;)
btul! btul! btul! :P
ReplyDeletecam pengalaman jer nie?
ReplyDeletehehe