A week after thanksgiving, we had a group discussion about Islam. To make it short, suddenly it become a debate of my commitments toward someone. Yes, it is about love. These are the questions, and my answer: If you guys love each other, why don't you just be in relationship? If we are in love, doesn't mean we MUST be in love. Being in relationship doesn't give any assurance that you are going to get married to each other. Most of my friends that are in relationship often ended up in failure, though a few (like one out of 50) still manage to maintain for 3-4 years. If you are ready to be in relationship, then you must be ready to get married. You give your commitment, attention and time for your partner, isn't it the same as married couple?* I never say being is relationship is wrong, but people who in relationship is the trouble. We always want the good thing (getting attention, sharing our love, etc) but always avoid the hard part (our responsibilities, commitment, et...
not going to tell u which one is the worst. but the best is to follow sunnah nabi.
ReplyDeletewell no need to tell me if you don't want to :)
ReplyDeletebtw which sunnah? or you just mean generally
ada ke sunnah suh makwe SURUH pakwe wat mcm2. or ada ke sunnah suh pakwe ikot ckp awek suruh wat pape? hahahaha
ReplyDeletemaybe he/she means to "husband" and "wife", because I said "man" and "woman"
ReplyDeletehaha. tp dlm case ni.
ReplyDeletexde bdk yg begelar husband or wife.
so he/she does not exist.
sbb limit dari kiri n kanan xwjud
hahaha
yelah naqib~ tak larat aku sorang nak layan ko
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